a buddy of mine in high school told me once that when he had a dream and i believe he said his brother did as well one night. and they both had it the same nite, and in it his grandmother apparently was saying goodbye to them. and it was a nightmare he said, but what really stunned him was in it she was a ghost, and he was further stunned to learn when he woke up he found out she had passed away in her sleep that night. so it was her saying goodbye he said. and you know what i believe him. another friend of mine used to live with his grandmother he no longer does, but he was close to his grandfather who has since passed away as well. after he died he saw his ghost in the basement and i think he said his grandmother and his mom did too. so he wasn't the only one. i think he did say he saw other relatives as well. but i believe it. i do believe in ghosts actually. people can tell a good story sure, but these for me just felt and sounded too true that something told me they were true. and they prolly are. i've never seen a ghost though.